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LCW - Advice Column
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OCT 1 2004

Lao National Teacher's Day
From: USA
- I'm curious about what they do on Laos' National Teacher's Day as we don't have anything like that here.
Reply:

Lao teachers make very little money in the educational system in Laos. But they also have a very respected and esteemed position in society. Teacher's are looked at with high regard.

National Teacher's Day was created to help show appreciation towards the teacher and the work that they do. It is typical in most Lao schools that the students give utilitarian items and other gifts to the teacher. For example, soap, toothpaste, shampoo, etc. One of our contributors here at LCW was a teacher in Laos and at the school he worked at, he received gifts that went beyond the typically expected gifts in regular Lao schools (in part because he worked at a foreign school). For example he received souvenirs, clothes, towels, etc.


Prostitution
From: USA
- I read that in Laos, like its SE Asian neighbors, was a destination for sex seekers. With the current regime in place, is this actually the case in Laos now?

Reply:

[Editor's Note, 2005: Sex workers and prostitutes have an extremely high rate of infection for STD/STI (sexually transmitted diseases/infections) in Laos - this is in comparison to neighboring countries. For some related reading head over to Advice Column archive topic entitled "Condom Use".]

It is very sad to say but irrespective of any governing body, prostitution has always existed. Granted though, in Laos it is to a much lesser extent than its neighbors such as Thailand and Vietnam.

As in any poor country you have numerous people who are trying to survive. There are many stories of gay or straight Laotians going across the border voluntarily to "sell their bodies" in Thailand. You also hear stories of Lao girls being coerced, lied to and/or kidnapped into a pimp/slave situation and made to work in brothels in, specifically, Thailand. In fact these stories are substantiated and well documented by Amnesty Intl. and by commissions and studies on the specific issue of child and sex labor in SE Asia. You also see that the prostitution is not just among the young but among older women as well.

It was witnessed by this writer that in Laos there are a large number of entrepreneurs and businesses that have created night/dance clubs, kareoke bars, etc. Many of these places are substitutes or covers for places of prostitution. Some places are more innocent than others and are specifically just for dancing and singing. While other places are more specific to offering sexual services. From the outside it is sometimes difficult to differentiate between the two but once you step in you can usually tell what kind of place it really is. Most of these places like these are looked down upon by most Lao people. The more legitimate places are for young Laotians to party.

Night clubs are visited by both Lao and foreigners. And if they're foreigners, it's usually men. It's rare to see foreign women in places like that. Although hearsay stories would say that they find their "action" elsewhere in a more discreet manner.

Whatever one's opinion on this particular situation in Laos is, one can surmise that it's actually growing. Prostitution aside, promiscuity also occurs in Laos, among the older and younger generations. As its attitudes become more liberal and it receives more images and similar attitudes from Westerners and Thais, you hear more and more stories of Lao boyfriends/girlfriends, husbands/wives, cheating on each other. But I don't believe it is characteristic of the general populace. Is it enough to just blame it on foreign influences though? Perhaps not. Each person has their own reasons for doing what they do.

It's also important to note the AIDS/HIV situation in Laos. While Laos has one of the lowest rates of AIDS/HIV in the world, the numbers actually show that it's been steadily rising since the early 90's when statistics on AIDS/HIV patients and deaths began to be gathered and analyzed.

Considering the above, the innocent image of Laos can be quickly lost. But the good thing about all this is that most Laotians still hold a more traditional view of relationships, one without promiscuity and prostitution - one where family and your loved ones are the most important aspect of one's life. Perhaps it is because of this that Laos still holds a low rate of AIDS/HIV in the world. Perhaps because of this it is that prostitution and promiscuity haven't spread as fast as it has in Thailand and Vietnam.

Updated: Oct 1 '04

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